I’m a mid-life mom, writer and underemployed freelance television and event producer just trying figure my shit out while simultaneously not screwing up my kid.
My mission is to share with raw honesty the personal, difficult, embarrassing, funny and ridiculous life experiences and lessons learned in work life, home life and mom life that inspire enlightenment, lift hearts and remind us all that we are not alone.
I moved 21 times by the time I was 24 across four states and 16 cities. I went to four elementary schools, one middle school and four high schools. I grew up around drugs, going to bars and was driving a car by 9-years-old. I started drinking heavily at age 12. I started doing all drugs available to me when I was 14 and ended up expelled from school, in rehab and raped by a stranger all in the same year at 15-years-old. I was on my own at 17, living with unsavory people in unsavory situations that maybe someday I’ll write a book about.
You could say that by the mature age of single digits, I knew Santa wasn’t real, life was not going to be a safe walk down Sesame Street, and I was destined to learn everything the hard way.
Now in my 40’s, I have successfully achieved life’s ultimate challenge – to grow the fuck up.
My message is one of perseverance, overcoming the obstacles that hold you back, and not letting your mistakes in the past define who you are or who you want to be. We are all capable of being better people and true to ourselves and our life’s path.
I don’t have all the answers. No post of mine will make your life complete. What I give to you is honesty sprinkled with a little wisdom so that, just maybe, we all don’t have to (keep) learn(ing) the hard way.